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Perfectionsism Is Self-Criticism in Disguise: How to Respond with Compassion

Perfectionsism Is Self-Criticism in Disguise: How to Respond with Compassion

Aug 2, 2025 | self-compassion, Stress, Anxiety

“I can’t believe I did that.” “That was so stupid, what’s wrong with me?” Do you find yourself talking to yourself like this if you’ve made a mistake, error, or omission? If so, you have an internalized self-critic who is not...
How We Show Up: The Difference Between Empathy, Compassion, and Sympathy

How We Show Up: The Difference Between Empathy, Compassion, and Sympathy

Jun 14, 2025 | Emotions, Empathy

We talk a lot about empathy these days. It is a buzzword, a therapy goal, and a virtue we associate with connection and understanding. But empathy is only part of the story. Used at the wrong time—or in the wrong way—it can backfire, leading to emotional exhaustion or...
The EQ Superpower You’re Not Using Enough: What Happens When You Say “I Was Wrong” (and Mean It)

The EQ Superpower You’re Not Using Enough: What Happens When You Say “I Was Wrong” (and Mean It)

Jun 1, 2025 | Communication, Emotions, Mindfulness, Narcissism

We’ve all been there—that uncomfortable moment when we realize we were wrong. Our natural instinct is often to ignore, defend, deflect, or deny. However, simply saying “I was wrong” is a powerful catalyst for building stronger relationships and deepening your...
The Secret to a Life Well Lived: What Regret and Nostalgia Can Teach Us about Presence

The Secret to a Life Well Lived: What Regret and Nostalgia Can Teach Us about Presence

May 23, 2025 | Feeling good about yourself, Mindfulness, self-compassion

Do you have regrets in your life? Little ones that niggle away at your thoughts, or big ones, ones that feel like your destiny would be vastly different if you had taken another path? We all have moments in our lives that we look back on with regret. Perhaps...

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John Taylor, Registered Clinical Counsellor - counselling and therapy services - specializing in Marriage and Couples Counselling & Psychotherapy for individuals, including anxiety and stress, depression, mood and sleep disorders, relationship issues, drug and alcohol addiction counselling.

Centrally located on Vancouver Island. In addition to Nanaimo, I serve Ladysmith, Parksville, Qualicum Beach, Gabriola Island, Chemainus, Lantzville, Port Alberni, Courtney, Comox.

2B-6135 Metral Drive
Nanaimo, BC
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