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The Ego, the Apology, and the Work of Repair

The Ego, the Apology, and the Work of Repair

Jun 1, 2025 | Communication, Emotions, Mindfulness, Narcissism

There is a quiet moment—small on the outside, seismic on the inside—when we realize we were wrong. Instinctively, the psyche protects itself: defend, explain, minimize, blame, intellectualize, disappear. These are not moral failures; they are ancient reflexes to...
The Slow Unravelling: Gaslighting and the Fight to Trust Your Inner Knowing

The Slow Unravelling: Gaslighting and the Fight to Trust Your Inner Knowing

May 4, 2025 | Narcissism, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

Gaslighting is not simply manipulation; it is the gradual dismantling of self-trust. For many, the impact is not a single incident but a slow erosion — second-guessing your memories, apologizing instinctively, feeling confused about what is real, or wondering if your...

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Individual & Couples Counselling in Nanaimo

Counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples: anxiety, depression, trauma, conflict, trust, addiction, and grief.

Patterns that keep returning.

Serving Central Vancouver Island & British Columbia

Based in Nanaimo, with in-person and video sessions for clients in Ladysmith, Parksville, Qualicum Beach, Gabriola Island, Lantzville, and Port Alberni, and across BC by secure video.

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John Taylor, MA, RCC · 20+ years of experience — Registered Clinical Counsellor · Registered Psychotherapist
2B-6135 Metral Drive
Nanaimo, BC
V9T 2L7

Phone: 250-618-0216
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