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The Art of Being a Good Friend: For Partners, Friends, Colleagues, and Strangers

The Art of Being a Good Friend: For Partners, Friends, Colleagues, and Strangers

Oct 10, 2025 | Emotions, Mindfulness, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

At the heart of every strong relationship; at home, at work, and out in the wider world; are two simple but often overlooked habits: caring for others and showing genuine interest in their lives. We all long for connection. We want to feel seen and valued, not just...
When You Have Done Harm: The Work of Making Amends

When You Have Done Harm: The Work of Making Amends

Jul 19, 2025 | Emotions, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling, self-compassion

     “Making amends is like tending a garden. You can’t undo the neglect, but you can return         with water, patience, and care.” —Anon Saying “I was wrong” may be one of the hardest and most powerful things we can do in a relationship. To recognize when we have...
“Is It Me, or Is This Manipulation?” – Recognizing Gaslighting in Relationships

“Is It Me, or Is This Manipulation?” – Recognizing Gaslighting in Relationships

May 4, 2025 | Narcissism, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

Have you ever found yourself apologizing constantly, second-guessing your own memories, or wondering if you’re losing your grip on reality? If so, you might be experiencing gaslighting—a subtle but devastating form of emotional manipulation that can quietly dismantle...
From Defensiveness to Deeper Understanding: How to Hear Your Partner’s Feedback

From Defensiveness to Deeper Understanding: How to Hear Your Partner’s Feedback

Apr 6, 2025 | Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

In the intricate dance of relationships, feedback—both given and received—plays a pivotal role. It’s the compass that helps us navigate each other’s needs, desires, and boundaries. However, instead of truly listening for the message, we often become...
How to Encourage a Friend or Colleague to Seek Counselling When They’re Reluctant

How to Encourage a Friend or Colleague to Seek Counselling When They’re Reluctant

Mar 9, 2025 | Communication, Counselling, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

You’ve tried everything—begging, reasoning, even offering to drive them to their first appointment. Yet, despite your best efforts, the answer is still no. Nothing seems to change. And you’re left wondering: How can I help them see this is important? It’s natural to...
Yellowstone & Greystone: Mastering Boundaries in the Face of Narcissism

Yellowstone & Greystone: Mastering Boundaries in the Face of Narcissism

Mar 1, 2025 | Communication, Feeling good about yourself, Mindfulness, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling

Dealing with a narcissist can feel like walking through a minefield. Their constant need for validation, manipulation, and emotional volatility can leave you feeling drained, questioning your reality, and struggling to maintain your emotional well-being. Fortunately,...
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John Taylor, Registered Clinical Counsellor - counselling and therapy services - specializing in Marriage and Couples Counselling & Psychotherapy for individuals, including anxiety and stress, depression, mood and sleep disorders, relationship issues, drug and alcohol addiction counselling.

Centrally located on Vancouver Island. In addition to Nanaimo, I serve Ladysmith, Parksville, Qualicum Beach, Gabriola Island, Chemainus, Lantzville, Port Alberni, Courtney, Comox.

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