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11 Phrases That Undermine Emotional Intelligence—and What to Say Instead

11 Phrases That Undermine Emotional Intelligence—and What to Say Instead

Nov 7, 2025 | Uncategorized

Emotional intelligence is not simply being kind, calm, or self-aware. At its core, it is how we show up in real time—especially in conversation. Even people who value empathy can fall into subtle habits that derail connection. Below are 11 common conversational...
When You’re Pulled Into Someone Else’s Storm: How to Regulate After Someone’s Blow-Up

When You’re Pulled Into Someone Else’s Storm: How to Regulate After Someone’s Blow-Up

Jun 28, 2025 | Emotions, Stress, Anxiety, Uncategorized

You’re calm, doing your own thing. Then someone snaps — a stranger in traffic, a neighbour critiquing your dog-handling, unsolicited judgment from another parent in the grocery aisle. Before you know it, your voice sharpens. Your body tightens. You walk away...
Lessons in Stillness and Stretching — Returning to the Body’s Old Wisdom

Lessons in Stillness and Stretching — Returning to the Body’s Old Wisdom

May 10, 2025 | Emotions, Feeling good about yourself, Mindfulness, Uncategorized

If you’ve ever watched a dog rise from sleep — slow, unhurried, arching through its spine — you’ve witnessed something most of us have forgotten. A creature returns to its body before it returns to its day. Animals do not ask whether they’ve earned a stretch, whether...
How Dogs Help Ease Anxiety and Support Emotional Regulation

How Dogs Help Ease Anxiety and Support Emotional Regulation

Apr 26, 2025 | Uncategorized

There is a kind of wordless knowing in the presence of a dog. The steady rhythm of their breath, the gentle weight of them settling near you, the quiet assurance in their eyes. Dogs live without pretense. No strategies, no emotional armor—just presence. And presence,...
The Voice Within: Learning a Gentler Internal Language

The Voice Within: Learning a Gentler Internal Language

Dec 8, 2024 | Emotions, Feeling good about yourself, self-compassion, Uncategorized

When the Harsh Voice Turns Inward At difficult moments, the mind often reaches not for comfort but for criticism.For many, self-talk echoes old messages — inherited from family, culture, school, relationships —voices that once trained us to perform, to endure, to stay...
Attachment Patterns: How Early Bonds Shape Adult Relationships

Attachment Patterns: How Early Bonds Shape Adult Relationships

Nov 24, 2024 | Emotions, Relationships, Marriage, Couple Counselling, Trauma, Uncategorized

Attachment Patterns: How Early Bonds Shape Adult Relationships Many people find themselves repeating relational patterns they never consciously chose —keeping distance when closeness is offered,clinging when connection feels uncertain,or feeling drawn toward...
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Depth-oriented psychotherapy in Nanaimo.

I work with individuals and couples as they move beneath the surface and engage the inner movements shaping their lives. Grounded in clinical training and guided by Jungian and symbolic understanding, my practice offers a secure, containing space where deeper understanding can take shape.

Serving Nanaimo, Ladysmith, Parksville, and the mid-Island region.

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John Taylor, MA, RCC — Registered Clinical Counsellor · Registered Psychotherapist
2B-6135 Metral Drive
Nanaimo, BC
V9T 2L7

Phone: 250-618-0216


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