Human beings are shaped by connection. Not just contact, not just proximity, but the lived experience of being met. We thrive when our inner world makes sense to another. We struggle when we are surrounded by people yet remain unseen. Connection is not a luxury of...
Most people know the experience of being suddenly unsettled by another person. A tone, a look, a careless comment, and something sharp moves inside us long before we have words for it. The instinct is to manage the other — correct, explain, withdraw, defend. But the...
Most of us have patterns that activate before we have time to think. A tone of voice we regret. A withdrawal we didn’t plan. A quick relief that becomes a long-term problem. These patterns feel automatic because, for a long time, they were. They formed when we needed...
